Matthew Benavidez, LMFT

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From friends to lovers: how to take your relationship to the next level

If you've been dating someone for a while, and you're really starting to get serious, you may be wondering how to take your relationship to the next level. In this blog post, I'll discuss several steps to making the jump from friends to lovers. So if you're ready to take things to the next level, keep reading!

Talk openly and honestly with your partner about your feelings

One of the most important things to do in a new relationship is to talk openly and honestly with your partner about your feelings. Although it can be difficult to share your innermost thoughts and fears, doing so can help to build trust and intimacy. Furthermore, it's important to be able to express both positive and negative emotions in a relationship. Suppressing your feelings will only lead to resentment and misunderstanding. If you're feeling scared or overwhelmed, tell your partner. They may not be able to fix the problem, but simply knowing how you're feeling can make a world of difference. So don't be afraid to communicate openly in your new relationship - it just might be the key to lasting love.

Spend time together doing things you both enjoy

The beginning of a new relationship is always exciting. There are so many new things to learn about your partner and the world around you. However, it can also be a time of uncertainty and stress. One of the best ways to reduce stress and build closeness in a new relationship is to spend time together doing things you both enjoy. This could be anything from going for a walk in the park to attending a concert or watching a movie. The important thing is that you're both involved in the activity and enjoying yourselves. Doing things together will help you to relax and have fun, while also getting to know each other better. So if you're looking for ways to reduce stress and build closeness in a new relationship, make sure to spend some time doing things together that you both enjoy.

Be there for each other when times are tough

In any relationship, it's important to be there for each other during the good times and the bad. During the good times, you can celebrate together and build memories that will last a lifetime. But during the tough times, your partner is going to need your support more than ever. That's why it's essential to be there for them, even when things are tough.

Listening is one of the most important things you can do during tough times. Just being there to listen and offer a shoulder to cry on can make all the difference in the world. You can also offer words of encouragement or advice if your partner is struggling with something. And if you're struggling with something yourself, don't hesitate to lean on your partner for support. Remember, you're in this together.

Tough times can test any relationship, but if you're there for each other when things are tough, it can make your bond even stronger.

Show your affection in public and private

One of the best things you can do for your new relationship is to show your affection in both public and private settings. Doing so will not only make your partner feel loved and appreciated, but it will also help to foster a deeper sense of intimacy between you. In public, try to find small ways to show your affection, such as holding hands or stealing a quick kiss. These gestures will let your partner know that you are proud to be with them and that you are comfortable showing your affection in front of others. In private, take time to cuddle, share heartfelt conversations, and express your love through physical intimacy. These intimate moments will help to deepen the bond between you and solidify the foundation of your relationship. So go ahead and show your affection – it’s good for you and good for your relationship!

Respect each other's opinions and beliefs

In a new relationship, it's important to respect each other's opinions and beliefs. After all, you're both still getting to know each other and these things are important to you. If you can't respect each other's opinions and beliefs, then the relationship is likely to fizzle out quickly. Of course, that doesn't mean that you have to agree with everything your partner believes in, but it does mean that you should be open to hearing them out and trying to understand where they're coming from. This mutual respect will help you build a strong foundation for a lasting relationship.

Make time for each other, even when life gets busy

When you first enter a new relationship, it's easy to make time for each other. The newness of your love creates an exciting energy that makes date nights effortless to plan and trips together fun to take. However, as life gets busier and you settle into a routine, it can be easy to let date nights fall by the wayside in favor of Netflix and chill. But if you want your relationship to thrive, it's important to make time for each other, even when life gets busy. Date nights don't have to be grand affairs - sometimes the simplest things, like cooking dinner together or taking a walk in the park, can be the most enjoyable. And if you can't find time for a regular date night, try to make small gestures throughout the day to let your partner know that they're still on your mind. A text message or phone call during lunchtime, a quick kiss before bed - these little things will help keep the spark alive in your relationship, even when life gets hectic.

Conclusion

Taking your relationship to the next level is not always easy, but it’s definitely worth the effort. By talking openly and honestly with your partner, spending time together doing things you both enjoy, being there for each other when times are tough, showing your affection in public and private, respecting each other's opinions and beliefs, and making time for each other even when life gets busy, you can create a strong foundation that will last a lifetime.